People seem to want to assign the word “issues” to everything. The notion of someone having and leading a healthy life is becoming almost mythical.
If you prefer privacy in your life; you have “trust issues”.
If you are comfortable and do better in leadership positions; you’re a “control freak”.
If you are confident in your self and have a healthy self-esteem, you are “narssicistic”, “arrogant” or “conceited”.
If you have doubts about a new experience and are unsure and cautious, you have “insecurity issues”.
If you like to socialize and connect with people, you are “needy”.
If you are upfront and outspoken about conflict, you have “anger issues”.
If you deeply believe in a principle and get worked up for it, you are a “drama queen”.
If you are autonomous and independent, you have “commitment issues”.
and the list goes on.
Sometimes I wonder what the hell is wrong with people..
then I laugh at how this thought suddenly became ironic.